As a bday gift to myself I bought this beautiful commission from the amazing @jardanijovonovichs, of my Castlevania OC in a cuddle pile with two certain dhampirs!
I love this so much I could cry, they did such an amazing job,, 💜
part of me misses the pre-streaming tv era where you could just turn the tv on and watch something random 😔 now if you want to watch tv you have to carefully select something it’s so formal and you have to commit i miss the casualness of flipping through channels and being like ok sure
i dont understand people’s perception of friendship anymore. do you only want to get to know people on a surface level? just for cute instagrammable moments?
do you not care deeply about them and understand that they are complex human beings who experience a range of emotions?
your friend being vulnerable with you is not trauma dumping. you don’t have to be a grief counselor to be there for your friend while they cry about a loved one dying. or just a rough time they’re having.
i mean, do you only have deep discussions with a therapist and not friends or family? if so, that’s weird tbfh and not utilizing therapy properly.
it’s all so incredibly bizarre to me. everyone’s always talking about yearning and loneliness, but if a friend starts to cry about their dying grandma it’s like, “oop, girly i dont have the Headspace for that. here’s my discount code for betterhelp.com” weirdo shit tbh
the thing that’s obnoxious about a lot of age gap discoruse is that it feels less about curbing out potential abuse and more the fear of getting old/being around older people, particularly when stops even being about actual relationships and just older people being AROUND younger people.
like people saying it’s “creepy” for older gay men to go clubs that also contain younger gay men or people saying it’s “suspicious” for older people to go to all-ages concerts. which i don’t know, just isn’t a healthy way to live considering that if you actually go outside you’re going to find your self around people who are not in you’re immediate age range and your going to have to deal with that.
i’ve seen lgbt discord servers that had an age limit of “30 and under″ as in if you were over 30 years old they’d kick you off, and like. i honestly don’t understand what the point of an age limit like that is apart from fear of the idea of possible relating to someone older than you.
I really like that Pikmin 4 is bringing back undergoing levels like 2 had, Pikmin 2 was my absolute favorite so this has me hyped af for 4
Macintosh | 31 | trans | he/him | digital artist
I like things and stuff and post art at times. 50% of this blog runs on a queue cause I'm tired.
header img is from a commission i bought by the amazing @jardanijovonovichs
